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LOL, you are too much Bemused

Two Enlightened Mice
See how they run
Notice they stop posting
When they're wives stop the fun

"You're obsessed with Fanda Eagles"
Them Mice hear the cats do say
"Make the bed, feed the cat
And put the dishes away"

So if we disappear at short notice
Our excuse is very very old
We is being good little mice
And doing what we is told .

1) you have to win them over every day, whether you've been married a week or a century;

2) brownie point totals accumulated during the day for obedience and good deeds, reset to zero at midnight; by the time you wake up at 6 a.m., you owe 200 brownie points;

3) ancient Chinese proverb: you're damned if you do, damned if you don't
ancient Scotch-Irish proverb: you're damned.

2a) A wise person once said to me in some pre matrimonial advice, "Bemused when you get married, you will not need to remember every mistake you ever made, why should two of you do so"

1a) You are a very learned person and/or someone with much experience.

Great to see that another survivor has cracked open another can of "whoop ass". It takes a hero to go there so heres to another hero!.

Recovered memory is an amazing thing......it only takes a spark and it can come pouring back like a movie. Like a movie sitting for years and God finally presses play. I've often thought this is God's way of protecting us until we are better able to cope with such ugly truths....some would say if God was truly a loving God he would never allow these abuses to happen.

Trust me I've asked why......I've asked why aren't these users struck down with the worst illness and death imaginable. I'm hanging onto what God says about what happens to those who hurt little children and I may not witness the outcome but perhaps it's so bad God can't dish it out in front of mankind on earth.

I see NTM sent their "token" female out again to face the press hounds. All hiding behind a womans skirt again to present a more sensitive image. Sorry guys but perhaps you should chose someone who hasn't suffered years of NTM indoctrination as it appeared that once again another NTM female was doing her duty and going through the motions on behalf of NTM.......as she did last time you pushed her out the door to face the press on the sexual abuse issues.

I know and don't doubt many more NTM wives have aided and abetted their husbands when it has come to sexual abuse in NTM. How many sit now in silence knowing the truth?

How many of these women knew clearly what was going on but played no speak? They'd played the back stop and made sure they covered for him so they could keep their income coming in....so they could keep there status.....whatever that means in NTM?. Delusions of grandeur come to mind.

About other law suits....I know many who have spoken out here about their histories have been women. Somehow in society we have made it easier for women to come forward about their abuse.....men struggle and carry it alone so often...we all care for each other in this....there is no doubt in my mind that my abusers actions involved both sexes in our dorm. Our dorm father was always very manipulative when it came to making sure he had someone to "discipline".

How many good men are out there reading these posts, quietly carrying their heartache alone?

Absolutely no dispute on what you say.

Is Christianity being used as a cop out for not facing and dealing with the worst sins amongst them?

Without a Vision and Morals the people perish......and I have often alined this saying with the apathetic who step sideways on issues. Without Morals, Values and Ethics...groups in society will slowly self destruct. Truth and honesty are the foundations to societies....when you kneel before God in times of need in years to come will you find he finally says......I don't know you....what have you become?

Have Christians become the most apathetic in our society when it comes to truth unless it is against what they feel are theological truths......or are they all hiding behind that hideous saying "Let go and let God" ?

Looks to me as if anything goes unless it is against Biblical theology???

Or Church doctrine.........