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PostPosted: Thu May 23, 2013 8:50 am 
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Four years ago, some very courageous MKs from Senegal (the authentic, original Fanda Eagles!) confronted the New Tribes Mission-USA Executive Board in Sanford, FL about abuse they suffered as children in the NTM school at Fanda.

Thus began the journey that brings us to this place. The Senegal MKs were heard, validated, and did see some punitive actions taken toward those who abused them.

This brought hope to hundreds of other MKs who wanted and needed to add their voices to the long, obscene history of the abuse of children whose parents served in this mission all over the world. Other MKs who also wanted and needed to be heard, validated, and to see punitive actions taken toward those who abused them.

The forums on this website have become the platform used by these MKs and their families, supporters and friends to bring attention to the widespread abuse suffered for decades, which was denied, covered up, minimized, ignored and forgotten.

The abuse happened. It will not go away. It will not be erased.

NTM leaders said they cared. They said they shed tears and lost sleep over what had been done to innocent children in their venerable institution. They said they would do something about it.

IHART was created in April, 2011. Yes, it could be said that it was created by Pat Hendrix. But Pat Hendrix was hired by NTM, and she has been paid ever since, by NTM. Pat Hendrix may be piloting the plane, but NTM is fueling the tanks.

We watched in anticipation, as the plane took off. The destination was unknown, but there was supposed to be a destination. Many people awaited validation and justice, as they struggled to move forward in their process of healing from the traumas they endured as children.

Two years have passed. We can still see the plane. It is still flying. Or is it? Is there any forward movement, or is it just suspended overhead in mid-air, tantalizing us?

The IHART investigation of Vianopolis, Brazil has now been going on for two years. No results. The Tambo, Bolivia investigation has been going on for a year and a half. No results. The Panama investigation has been going on for close to a year and a half. No results.

The last IHART update from Pat Hendrix was posted over two months ago. On the NTM website. Pat has never given us the courtesy of communicating with us here on Fanda Eagles. She has got to have a sizeable data base of e-mail addresses for many of us who have written to her. I don't know about others, but she has never initiated any communication with me.

The last semi-official update from Brian Shortmeier which I received was written almost four months ago. Brian is the Director of Child Protection for NTM-USA. Brian sends out periodic updates through private e-mail, to a group of people who have requested to be kept informed. I don't believe he has ever come on this forum and addressed us publicly.

There have been some significant changes in the structure of the team of NTM members working on MK abuse issues. An extremely key person has left that team. A new member has been added. Nothing has been communicated officially about these changes. We are left in the dark, with our ear to the grapevine, trying to sort out what's going on.

Through personal correspondence, I hear things like this: We hear that people think we are stalling. We too are frustrated at the pace of the IHART investigations. But there is nothing we can do about it. We don't run the investigations. We just pay the bills.

And pay the bills they do! I cannot even imagine the hundred of thousands of dollars that have now left the coffers of NTM, related to MK abuse. To pay Pat Hendrix's salary and all other expenses for all the people on the three different IHART investigative teams. I don't know how many of those people are getting paid. I am certain the Pii group working on Panama is not providing their expertise for free. There have been countless plane trips for many people, including overseas flights. Lodging costs, food costs, other travel expenses. Then add all the money being paid out to counselors and therapists who are trying to help MKs pick up the pieces of their shattered childhoods (for this help from NTM we are very grateful). And what about all the billable hours being racked up by the lawyers who are fighting the two lawsuits that are still ongoing (one for almost two years!)? And then there is the money disbursed for the lawsuit that was settled. And the other mediation payments made to several other MKs. God only knows how much all this has cost NTM, financially. When I think of the original source of all this money - the pennies from children's Sunday School offerings, the tithes from widows' Social Security checks, the carefully budgeted missions funds of hundreds of churches - I feel sick about it.

Why are we stalled out? Who is it that has stopped caring? Is it those of us who have come and gone here at Fanda Eagles? The 300 people who have posted over the years, most of whom have gone quiet, and apparently drifted away? Is it the silent readers, who hit this site at an astounding rate, but never add their voices to the demand for justice? Is it the thousands of NTM missionaries, who may or may not know that terrible atrocities occurred in their mission, and may or may not care that the survivors of those atrocities carry their pain like a heavy cloak, day after day as they make their way through an exhausting life? Is it the leaders of NTM, who know far more than they want to admit, have pushed that knowledge deep into the back closets of their minds, and are smilingly pushing forward in their grand plans for expanding their organization? Is it Pat Hendrix, who collects her paycheck and directs her investigative troops from her home in Indiana, stringing us along for one more month, one more year, one more decade?

I can't decide who this joke is being played on, exactly.

But I'm not laughing.


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PostPosted: Thu May 23, 2013 10:15 am 
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I am so sorry to hear all this Raz. It is a serious matter and one worth questioning. I found out about the abuse four years ago, after working on two separate fields with accused abusers. I tried to make a difference before leaving and even immediately after. And today there are few who believe me when I tell them about the atrocities because it just seems unbelievable that so much abuse has happened rampantly with few consequences. I have fasted and prayed for God to step in. I live in PA and was horrified at the Penn State crimes, but gratified to see the evil people punished. Yet Ntm still treads on with so many people in its mission and out of its organization blindly supporting them and pouring in funds. It makes me wonder how this can happen??? I mean even mega university Penn State had to face their crimes, yet few people know about mission agencies abusing children.
I believe Matthew 18:6 where Christ warns that anyone who causes a little one to stumble will suffer severe punishment, but at times wonder why Ntm and other agencies continue to prevail, unscathed.


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The answer to your question is simple and complex.

I have the dubious priviledge of living in a city that had a massive earthquake 2 and a half years ago. Much of the city was destroyed, but luckily almost all of us had insurance and we have a generous government that cares for us, so all our houses are fixed up, right?
Wrong. This is now the third winter and far to many insured people are still living in broken damp homes, driving on third world roads. So what has gone wrong?

Well it is the scale of the disaster and the amount of money needed to fix the mess. The insurance companies don't like parting with "their" money and government departments soon develop layers of beuracracy where they are paid exhorbitant amounts of salary to send memos to each other. While the average person still lives in a broken home.

And it is just the same with NTM. Much $$$ is involved, because this is a massive organisation with an enormous annual income. All that $$$$ needs to be managed and it attracts people who have more interest in keeping the $$$ coming in and preserving it, than sorting out the scandal. So layers of lawyers and departments are created, all sounding good, but accomplishing very little, except sending nice memos to each other. Oh the language sounds wonderful, just like the condolence I get from my insurance company or the government department I regularly deal with. Yes they are sorry for my loss, I have their condolence for the mess I'm living in, but the claim has to be signed off by yet another department, so it will be delayed even further. And guess who is being paid very well for managing my claim and who will be retired before I see any of it? Same with NTM.

Insurance companies, government departments and NTM have a habit of excusing their inaction by quoting policies of their own or others, which enable them to do nothing to fulfill their obligations. And so those who have the suffered the most get shunted around and dismissed with empty platitudes, while life goes on very nicely in the ivory tower offices.

So the simple answer to the question is $$$$.

The complex answer is religion. We are dealing with a group who has the belief that they are the only ones who are truly right. That their cause is the most noble of the noble. And they have been infiltrated by religious fanatics and fakes. The religious fanatics will do anything and say anything to maintain their cause. They will lie, cheat and extort to keep the cause going and if that means sacrificing their own children, so be it.
And then there are the fakes. These are those who joined or evolved into the lifestyle that comes with missions. They get paid to have a lifestyle that suits them, or they can hide in an organisation and commit criminal acts, because as long as they burble out the religious mumbo jumbo the fanatics want to hear, they have a very good chance of getting away with it.

And so we end up where we are now. A cultish organisation with a criminal past that will do anything to maintain the status quo, even if that means lying, cheating and extorting.

And how do I know? I've got my eyes open, my brain switched on and have seen it from first hand experience.


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It is so discouraging. Why do we keep talking about the abuse? Looking for ways to find justice? Why do we take the abuse that is given to us even now when we approach the missions, NTM is not the only one? Why don't we forget it? I have asked myself this many times. Wouldn't it be easier to just heal myself and forget everyone else? I can't stop no matter how much I would like to. I have made my best friends in the world, many here in Fanda Eagles. Most I have never met in person. I have been encouraged in my journey by thee who have been abused or are advocates. I am not alone! I have heard marvelous stories of MKs who are on a difficult journey but progressing.

So I want to keep going on this journey of justice for all who have been abused. I want to see missions actually seek to include all their MKs in their inner circle of really caring. Is there hope? I don't know but I must keep trying. It is possible to change even for those who run the missions.

Can you tell I am rather down today? Thanks all of you for being here. (Those of you who just read, do you get excited when you see us discouraged? Well we not going away)


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The reason we don't go away and give up is because we look about us and see the destruction in so many lives that this has caused. And we see the injustice of those who did this and those that enabled them by covering up having a seemingly carefree life. We are also motivated by the strong possibility that child abuse still continues.

So we speak for those who cannot speak, for those who have not the courage or ability to do so. And we speak up so that others might be warned of what was really going on behind the facade and might still well be going on.

There won't be many thank yous for our efforts, but when we get up in the morning we can look ourselves in the eye and say "I am making a difference". And we can do what so many others have not been able to achieve after their strange childhoods, we can live and not just exist.


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"We can LIVE, and not just exist"!

Oh, I do love that!

I say "Amen"!

But wait, this isn't church.

Or is it??

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A hug???

Really???

Red letter day Downunder.

Maybe this should be declared a national holiday: Bemused Joins the Huggers Day.

**Hug back**

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BIG DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hugs, Bemused!
Or is there only one?


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Yes, yes, that's all very nice, hugs all round. But look at the background to this folks. Here we have two MKs from very different walks of life who have joined forces to help so many and one is publicly acknowledging the other by going out of their comfort zone. Look how many posts these two have written between them and then read some of those posts.
"Oh but Aussie, they have been sent by God to help us, let us all join hands and sing Kumblah Yah". Oh please, one of them doesn't even know if he believes in God!!!!! So I doubt he thinks he has been sent by God at all.
I know Bemused, I'm one of the few to have an insight into what happened to him as a child, because I was on site. His life was sheer hell, because he was different and being different made him the bulls eye for the bull shit. They tried to break him at Numonohi and the other MKs joined in. Yet where are they now? Just being the cowards they were way back then and where is Bemused? Here trying to encourage us, show us how to get through this and working his ass off with Raz to make a difference. Of all the MKs I grew up with, Bemused has the least reason to be here, because he was abused by the most and yet the mark of the man is that he has forgiven those who kicked him so viciously when he was down and is now speaking out for the very people who did this to him. And they can't get off their sorry asses and even help each other because they are still stuck in the mindset of the past.
Bemused broke the mold, he stopped existing and started living, that takes real guts.

Look at Raz and Bemused, look at the letters they have written. Most get little result but every so often they hit the big ti


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