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I must say that I have regularly read the many postings of this site and held my mouth shut (and calmed my rage)

Brother (bemused), I have tried to make contact with you and you fail to reply to my txt messages. What have I done wrong
that you had to walk away from me? What have my children done wrong that you ignore their txt messages when
they have made contact. Do you know the tears your niece has shed over the matter, not to mention that she held
herself responsible? It broke my heart when your niece told me she had txt you on my birthday to remind you it was
my birthday and how I would love a txt from you, how she txt you on your birthday and even asked if she could make
a meal for you and your wife, but you ignored them. This did not come from me. It came from one who really loves her uncle.


Is it because when my children were young I had two child abusers in my house and I failed to pick it up despite knowing
one was "weird"? Is it because your brother in law was sent away in his teenage years to live with a family friend up Takaha way
and it later came out the man molested boys? Is it because I have talked in depth with Mum and Dad about the issues on this site?
Is it because your sister and I have a good relationship? Is it because despite returning from PNG with many of the problems
of being an MK in PNG (apart from having been sexually abused as some were), I have worked through many issues and with
God's help am a much stronger person. Is it because I aren't jumping up and down bagging everyone connected with NTM?


Maybe those of you such as Raz, Mosquito Bite, Pamela ect would like to explain because you have obviously given my brother
full support, even said he was courageous in walking away from his family. You must know factual things about my family that I don't
know. The question I have, if you can't factually enlighten me, is it wrong for me to keep my mouth shut?

You are right brother, the devastating affects of the earthquakes are nothing compared to the devastating effects of this.
Family is so important!

"......because He makes all things beautiful......in His time."
DDML, Your post was scanned for disdain....and it was found to be full of hope! Thanks for turning our hearts in that direction.

Here is a link to the song Beautiful Things by Gungor

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1spkhp41 ... ure=fvwrel

DDML, thanks for your post.
It is indeed a very sensitive and sticky situation that we all face here.
In the end, we have to walk thru our own obstacle course (as was my own family situation) alone or holding the hand of God. Our choice.
We have to make our own decision about crimes committed.
We support others as best we can by listening.
Sometimes by comments.
And all are welcome here.
Proud to be Kiwi, you are welcome here.

I certainly have given your brother, Bemused, full support. I have given him my support as upholding right when wrong has prevailed for so long. No, I have never encouraged him to abandon his family. That was a decision he alone had to make, he has agonized in words how he had to come by that decision. Who am I to question him? I have never mentioned his family in my posts so how you came by the fact I have encouraged him in this is beyond me. His decision was made before I knew the man who has championed for NTM to come clean. Why wouldn't we realize, when their is so much sin in the camp (child abuse a known fact), that it will destroy family trust? It will tear families apart, your family is not the only one that has been torn apart. This is an evil that NTM has permeated that will continue to destroy until they do right. Please put the blame where it belongs, in the hands of NTM. Full stop.

I correct myself in the word, their, should be there. Maybe this forum is doing much more than I even realize in healing this sad sin saga. I pray families who are torn apart take notice, families can be put back together when truth prevails. Full stop.

Thanks Bro for your reply.
It has given me some idea of what you are thinking.
I will say that to take an innocent, loving txt from your niece and turn it into
someone else sending it must be a reflection of what is going on. It sure wasn't
me and I have checked with her too to confirm it was her.
You probably don't know, but I have my name down to be interviewed by IHART
when they are interviewing Kiwis and your other sister is more than willing
too. It has been good talking to her, and listening to her experiences in a dorm
before Dad had her moved.
Sorry if you took my txt as threatening. Out of shear fustration of wanting to know
the facts behind your statements about our family and getting no answer, I thought if
I said I would share my thoughts on here you would talk to me. Sorry.
When you are ready, you are more than welcome to pop in or I'll even shout you a
meal (think it's my turn anyway).

God bless the Kiwis! All of them.

Thanks for being brave. Thanks for sharing. Thanks for being transparent.

Keep it up.

Full stop.

For now.

For five minutes.

Then I'll start again.

Let me just get a swig of Mountain Dew...I mean Diet Mountain Dew......I mean.....water....just water.