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PostPosted: Thu Sep 26, 2013 3:14 pm 
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Throw in the fact that some missions/missionaries don't trust the local authorities and prefer to deal with matters in house. Which raises an interesting problem. If the locals aren't trusted, why are the locals expected to trust those that don't trust them.

In the missions go with their message of "trust us, we have the answers to you eternal needs, however we don't trust your authorities and we don't comply with the laws of the land and some of our missionaries do some horrible things, but we just close a blind eye . . ." Trust has to be earned.


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Boz spoke frankly at a conference in Texas today to the Religion Newswriters Association. These journalists could be very effective in bringing more attention to the widespread abuse of children in mission circles.

Here is the first article I've seen to come out of this conference. Hot off the press!

http://www.religionnews.com/2013/09/26/ ... sex-abuse/

Billy Graham’s grandson: evangelicals ‘worse’ than Catholic Church on sex abuse
Sarah Pulliam Bailey | Sep 26, 2013 |


The Christian mission field “is a magnet” for sex abusers, Boz Tchividjian, a Liberty University law professor who investigates abuse said Thursday (Sept. 26) to a room of journalists.

While comparing evangelicals to Catholics on abuse response, ”I think we are worse,” he said at the Religion Newswriters Association conference. But it’s harder to track.

“Protestants can be very arrogant when pointing to Catholics,” said Tchividjian, a grandson of evangelist Billy Graham and executive director of Godly Response to Abuse in the Christian Environment (GRACE), which has investigated sex abuse allegations.

Mission agencies, “where abuse is most prevalent,” often don’t report abuse because they fear being tossed from countries, he said. Abusers will get sent home and might join another agency. Of known data from abuse cases, 25 percent are repeat cases.

Still, he says, he sees some positive movements among some Protestants. Bob Jones University has hired GRACE to investigate abuse allegations, a move that encourages Tchividjian, a former Florida prosecutor. ”That’s like the mothership of fundamentalism,” he said. His grandfather Billy Graham split with Bob Jones in a fundamentalist and evangelical division.

“The Protestant culture is defined by independence,” Tchividjian said. Evangelicals often frown upon transparency and accountability, he said, as many Protestants rely on Scripture more than religious leaders, compared to Catholics.

Abusers discourage whistle blowing by condemning gossip to try to keep people from reporting abuse, he said. Victims are also told to protect the reputation of Jesus.

Too many Protestant institutions have sacrificed souls in order to protect their institutions, he said. ”We’ve got the gospels backwards,” he said.

Tchividjian said he is speaking with Pepperdine University, a Church of Christ school in California, about creating a national GRACE center.

Earlier this summer, GRACE spearheaded an online petition decrying the “silence” and “inattention” of evangelical leaders to sexual abuse in their churches.


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Brilliant comments.

So "the Christian Mission field is a magnet for sex abusers", well that explains much of what I've been wondering, how did so many sex offenders up in NTM and other missions.

Oh what a mess!


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Today's FB post from GRACE:

"transparent church = vulnerable church = redeemable church = transformable church = safer church. Does this describe your church??"

May I paraphrase?

transparent mission = vulnerable mission = redeemable mission = transformable mission = safer mission.

Does this describe your mission??


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Certainly not the mission that most of us here are familiar with.


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Not from GRACE, but posted by another Facebook friend:

"A victim of murder feels no more pain; a victim of child sexual abuse feels pain for the rest of their life."

Cecil Murphy, "Not Quite Healed"


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Or becomes numb to the pain, numb to happiness, numb to life and just exists.

Total healing is a rare commodity, but living beyond the pain is possible. Everyday now I look at the past and think, "that was my lot in life, now I can live beyond the reach of the crazy people who faked their Christianity to be the cruel, vindictive and hurtful people who attempted to destroy another human and those who just stood and watched"

The pain will always exist, but the exhilaration of flying free more than makes up for it.


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Good for you Bemused. Yes you have survived and are now flying free! :D


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