Depends on your definitions of "love" and "brother and sister". Just because you are related to someone, you don't have to "love" them. And just because you can claim to be "brothers and sisters in Christ" doesn't mean you have to love someone either. Just because someone dresses up like a sheep, doesn't make them a member of your flock that you must love, there are some really nice wolf disguise outfits that can be picked up cheap these days!
Anyway, saying you "love" someone has become rather cheap and meaningless these days anyway. Just have to click a "like" button and type "we love you so much" and hey presto, civic duty done with a good dose of cheap insincerity.
Take my advice from someone who has been round a bit. Spend time getting to know what makes people that you come into contact with really tick. Look outside your comfort zone and at the people you interact with. Sometimes the greatest people we will ever come across are way out of our traditional comfort zones, but they share common passions and we can learn from their different way of looking at things as they challenge us to open our eyes to who we can really be. Much better to really "love" a few close friends who have your back, than to "love" a whole lot of superficial good time buddies, who will desert you in droves when the going gets tough.
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