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Professor Sidebotham is concerned. The risks are great for Protestant organizations.

"Since 1985, Protestant organizations have watched the Catholic scandal unfold. Some thought, "This is a Catholic problem. This cannot happen to us." The reality is that Protestant ministries can learn from the Catholic Church's experience. We hope that this paper might help facilitate such learning. The risks are great. Now is the time to prepare."

http://www.rothgerber.com/files/10368_A ... Market.pdf

Dr. Sidebotham's co-author in the "Bash the Grace Report" article, Uncle Nussy, or Martin Nussbaum, makes money making sure statutes of limitation in sex abuse cases are not changed to benefit victims. Here are some excerpts from his CV:

Colorado House Bill 1090 and Colorado Senate Bill 143 (analysis, testimony, strategy, and public relations ‎assistance for the Colorado Catholic Conference in defeating a series of bills proposed in the 2006 session of the ‎Colorado General Assembly that would have the effect of extending or eliminating statutes of limitations for ‎childhood sexual abuse claims against Catholic and other institutions)
Melanie H. v. Doe 1, U.S. D.C. - San Diego, Case No. 04CV1596 (WQH (WMC)) (consultant in constitutional ‎challenge against California S.B. 1779 which suspended the statute of limitations for childhood sexual abuse ‎claims targeting Catholic institutions)

http://www.lrrlaw.com/nussbaum/#.VIhhXTHF9cs

Sidebotham's partner in maligning the GRACE report, Uncle Nussy, says that "[w]hen the value of sexual abuse claims increases, the number of such claims also increases."

http://www.churchstatelaw.com/treatises ... eRules.pdf page 15


Uncle Nussy, I don't think any of us are getting rich. Some of us have lost a lot of sleep; we've destroyed connections with hundreds of people that we grew up with because of taking a stand here. We've put stress on our own family relationships in order to stand up for our siblings.

But since you view the world through economic lenses, once we all become millionaires after the PNG IHART report is released in 2073, we'll make an offer to buy your home in El Paso County, Colorado. The assessor currently has its market value pegged at $733,891.00 That must be a beautiful home. Has Scott Ross been in your home? Has Professor Sidebotham been there? How many consultations to thwart the extension of a statute of limitations as to sexual abuse does it take to buy a house like yours?

Bob Jones University Apologizes for Failing Sexual Abuse Victims

http://www.christianitytoday.com/gleani ... e-bju.html

http://www.wyff4.com/news/final-report- ... y/30158484

Nussy and Sidebotham will no doubt blast the GRACE report regarding Bob Jones University.

The Final Report for the Investigatory Review of Sexual Abuse Disclosures and Institutional Responses at Bob Jones University will be released at 11:00 A.M. on Thursday, December 11, 2014. The 300 page report will be available for review and download on the GRACE website. The purpose of this independent investigation, at the invitation of Bob Jones University, was to address the responses of the university to instances of sexual abuse disclosed or otherwise known to the institution. As such, this comprehensive report contains painful disclosures by sexual abuse victims and strong language when describing the impact of the institutional responses to abuse disclosures. We caution readers who have their own histories of abuse that reading this report may trigger painful memories and you may find portions difficult to process. We urge you to take steps to care for yourself in protective ways, seek support and only read the report in a place of safety and with the encouragement of faithful companions.

Read more: http://www.wyff4.com/news/final-report- ... z3LawW7GnQ

Bob Jones University Investigation Announcement
Release of Final Report
The Final Report for the Investigatory Review of Sexual Abuse Disclosures and Institutional
Responses at Bob Jones University will be released at 11:00 A.M. on Thursday, December
11, 2014. The 300 page report will be available for review and download on the GRACE
website.
The purpose of this independent investigation, at the invitation of Bob Jones University,
was to address the responses of the university to instances of sexual abuse disclosed or
otherwise known to the institution. As such, this comprehensive report contains painful
disclosures by sexual abuse victims and strong language when describing the impact of the
institutional responses to abuse disclosures. We caution readers who have their own
histories of abuse that reading this report may trigger painful memories and you may find
portions difficult to process. We urge you to take steps to care for yourself in protective
ways, seek support and only read the report in a place of safety and with the
encouragement of faithful companions.
The GRACE team continues to be amazed and humbled by this two-year journey. We have
encountered some of the most amazing individuals who walk the face of this earth and
consider each of them to be real life heroes. Thank you for allowing us into your lives.
As this historical process comes to an end, we continue to pray that the words of this report
will fuel hope and healing in the lives of many as well as bring about transformational
changes in the life of Bob Jones University. To that end, we look forward to having a front
row seat at watching God work.

The GRACE Team
December 10, 2014

http://netgrace.org/wp-content/uploads/ ... elease.pdf

Tomorrow morning (Dec. 11, 2014), the GRACE organization (Godly Response to Abuse in the Christian Environment), based in Lynchburg, Va., will release a report on BJU’s response to reports of sexual abuse and sexual assault for a period spanning almost four decades. The University commissioned the review because of our desire to examine our history in counseling victims of sexual abuse and sexual assault and to consider how our policies and practices could be improved. We wanted to make sure that we were not only in compliance with legal reporting requirements, but far more importantly, that we were providing the spiritual and emotional support needed to help victims overcome the trauma they had experienced.

GRACE interviewed approximately 40 victims, a number of whom were former BJU students who received counseling from BJU. Most had suffered child sexual abuse while some had experienced sexual assault before or while at BJU. Some stated to GRACE that Bob Jones University did not meet their needs when they came to us for counseling and advice. Some also stated that the counseling they received made them feel responsible for the crimes against them.

On behalf of Bob Jones University, I would like to sincerely and humbly apologize to those who felt they did not receive from us genuine love, compassion, understanding, and support after suffering sexual abuse or assault. We did not live up to their expectations. We failed to uphold and honor our own core values. We are deeply saddened to hear that we added to their pain and suffering.

To them I would say—we have carefully listened to your voice. We take your testimony in this report to our hearts. We intend to thoroughly review every aspect and concern outlined in the investigation and respond appropriately.

We are all awakening to the depth and breadth of this societal problem. Colleges and universities across the country are reassessing how they handle cases of sexual abuse and assault. We want to be part of that solution. To do that, we must first address our own failings, and the GRACE report helps in that effort by identifying specific areas of concerns. Some of those concerns include the following:

The report stated that BJU officials were not adequately prepared or trained to counsel victims appropriately.
University staff members were perceived by some to be insensitive to their suffering and sometimes rushed to resolve their negative feelings without adequate concern for their pain.
Some victims reported that the counseling offered by the University was inadequate, insensitive and counter-productive.
Some felt a number of staff members at the University tended to blame victims for the abuse or sexual assault they experienced and that this implied blame left them feeling more traumatized.
The report found that counseling sometimes overlapped with disciplinary actions. Victims felt counseling should be separated from BJU’s discipline process and a clear procedure of confidentiality should be established.
These findings deserve careful review and analysis. I promise the victims who felt we failed them that the GRACE report is an extremely high priority that has our immediate and full attention. We are thoroughly analyzing the conclusions, the underlying evidence and the recommendations and we will provide a thorough and thoughtful update as we complete this process.

It is important to note that the GRACE report, as significant as it is, is only one element of the actions we have undertaken in the past three years to improve our approach to sexual abuse and assault. As the report itself explains, the University in recent years has revised its policies and procedures:

To make every member of the faculty and staff a mandatory reporter which requires each to promptly notify law enforcement officials of child sexual abuse.
To encourage adult victims of sexual assault to report their experience to the appropriate law enforcement officials.
To make clear that the biblical lesson of forgiveness does not imply that the victim is in any way responsible for the sexual assault or abuse they experienced.
To provide more extensive training and access to professional counselors with expertise in sexual abuse for University personnel who interact with victims coming to them for care and compassion.
In a final note, we are thankful for GRACE and Boz Tchividjian. They are devoted to the cause of preventing sexual abuse and their contributions are significant. All along, our hope has been that this report would give us greater clarity and direction in addressing these important challenges. As you can appreciate, we need to review this report in exhaustive detail. We need to understand better the process GRACE followed along with their recommendations. As we continue the review, we will share our thoughts and any questions we may have. That being said, we find the report a valuable tool in our sincere efforts to improve how we counsel as well as the support we provide to victims of sexual abuse and assault.

We are totally dedicated to this on-going effort and will immediately appoint a committee to review this report over the next 90 days.

We do not take the concerns of the victims who believe we failed them lightly. We know we must work to regain their trust through actions, not words, and for those actions to be truly meaningful, we must make a long-term commitment that creates genuine, sustainable change. It is our solemn pledge to do just that.

—Steve Pettit

Published December 10, 2014

GRACE....good enough for Bob Jones University.
GRACE....blasted by Uncle Nussy and Aunt Sidebotham.
GRACE....not good enough for New Tribes after Fanda report


John 3:19
This is the verdict: Light has come into the world, but people loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil.

Bob Jones University told rape victims to repent and look for ‘root sin’ that caused their attack.