I really think that all sexual abusers have been abused before. I don't think they can ever heal until they deal with their own victimization from childhood. Until they realize how much their childhood abuse affected them, until they take responsibilities for their actions as adults, and then again- much accountability. Have you ever heard of chemical castration? It's a shot or medicine that they will give abusers and it's supposed to temper the urges they have. Problem is, once they stop taking it, those urges come back. I read an absolutely horrible but true story of a guy in a mental place who was being chemically castrated. Once he left there though, those urges all returned. he assumed a new identity, moved into a nice neighborhood and the abuse continued with the neighborhood kids. When he was finally caught, no one could believe it because he was just the nicest guy.
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