Thanks sherpadude! I have been doing a lot of talking with my parents and my sister, along with another MK who lived in the dorm with me. I definitely feel it has been good to talk with someone who was there with me, it has answered some of my questions about it all. I am considering pursuing finding out the answers to a few more questions I have, mostly about why the person who did wrong was allowed back to the field. I have discovered that anonymity is a comfortable place, and asking questions I have will be a big step out of that comfort zone...funny how sometimes it feels better to anonymously stew rather than step out and get answers.