This is an interview with Graham Capill's wife, note the comments on forgiveness:
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Judith said she and her children made weekly visits to Christchurch's Rolleston Prison, and her husband was "pretty good, he is doing the best he can".
She said the time had come to forget, forgive and move on.
"That is how God would want it," she said. She has spoken to her husband's victims and claimed they too "forgive" him for his abusing them.
"They say they have, one certainly has, in fact two have, I think," she said.
http://www.stuff.co.nz/sunday-news/153650/I-have-to-forgive-my-pervert-husband