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PostPosted: Thu Jul 21, 2011 9:56 pm 
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Kathy, I think you should write a book called, "Post-Death Options of Saints and Sinners." :D


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We could remind ourselves of what leadership is all about.
How many read this post on the Media site way back in the beginning?
Read the posts for Sept. 6 and 8. The 1st 2 posts for Sept.

New Tribes Mission faces the consequences of its past
Leading from the Sandbox, TJ Addington
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Sorry--go to the media site and look for what is posted above.
Or
http://leadingfromthesandbox.blogspot.com/2010/09/new-tribes-mission-faces-consequences.html

Plus, look at the Sept. 8 post as well.


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http://www.cfnews13.com/static/articles/images/documents/complaint-against-new-tribe-mission-0509.pdf

The Jane Doe 7 Case.


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Today I finished my first week in the secular work world since 1998, when my husband became I full time youth pastor and I became a full time stay at home mom and my husband’s ministry partner. After four years of being a youth pastor we joined NTM. Eight years later we found ourselves suddenly out of “the ministry” and facing the reality of how to survive financially in the USA.

Fortunately, I have a degree in Physical Therapy and even though I let my license lapse in 1998, I was able to pass the National PT Exam last month and find a job at a nursing home. The receptionist at the nursing home knows that I am an ex-NTM missionary and today she asked me, very gently, if I missed being a missionary. I could have burst into tears at that unexpected question.

Yes! I definitely miss it. I miss being part of something I really valued. I miss my missionary friends with whom I shared the same vision. I miss my national co-workers. Now I am doing a job in an industry that I dislike because of the way it turns caring for people into a money making venture. Now I punch a clock in order to make a living. But although there are things I don’t like about my current situation, and things I miss about my missionary work, I do not believe my secular work is any less “worthy” than ministry work.

But how often is that very idea the premise for doing missionary work? How often do we consider the ones who leave their home countries and their jobs and their relatives and friends behind in order to bring the gospel to perfect strangers in a foreign land to be the real heroes? How easy is it for missionaries to get their sense of value or approval in God’s sight from the line of work they have chosen (so often disguised in the Christianese term “my calling”?)

This is another foundation stone that needs to be reset. Don’t all people have equal value in God’s sight, even non-believers? Aren’t all believers equally pleasing in God’s sight, whether we claim to have a special calling or not? And don’t we all equally share the privilege of being a conduit of God’s light and love to those around us, whether we are involved in ministry work or not, whether we work in our home countries or not?

I think Paul Fleming got NTM off on the wrong foot when he decided to leave his secular work in order to do something of "eternal value" with his life. It’s not that there is anything (necessarily) wrong with going to a foreign land to share the gospel. But the implication that missionary work is somehow more worthy, or more valuable than secular work is very, very, very bad. It is bad when we set up a sort of spiritual hierarchy system in our minds in which we compare ourselves to others in order to gain a sense of our personal eternal value. It is bad whether you are on the supposed low end looking up at the missionaries (and secretly thanking your lucky stars that you don’t have “the calling”), or whether you are on the supposed high end looking down at those who are doing “worldly” things like plumbing or fixing people’s teeth or driving taxis.

So today, even though I grieve the loss of my old missionary work, I am going to embrace the new “ministry assignment” that I find myself in and trust Christ to live his life through me here in my new “calling”.


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Kathy, you will be a blessing in your new job. The people in your area need you. Are they less worthy than those you ministered to when you were a missionary? It may be a challange to function outside the realm of NTM, but you will acclimate. We anticipate many great stories!


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Good stuff, Kathy! Good stuff, and right on!


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How about this kind of leader???


TUESDAY, JULY 26, 2011

Leadership in Crisis
Unfortunately, every ministry finds itself in a crisis mode from time to time. How leaders lead in times of crisis either gives them added credibility or causes them to lose credibility. Here are some critical elements of crisis management.

First, be utterly transparent as to why the crisis has occurred. As I wrote in a recent blog, spin management does not work because people have the ability to sense whether the explanation is the real story which goes to honesty, openness and the credibility of leaders. I once listened to a leader explain why his ministry had lost a great deal of money in a certain year leading to a financial crisis. He spiritualized the situation rather than simply telling the truth that there had been some bad management and he lost credibility in the eyes of many. Rule one is come clean and while you may take some short term shots, you will be better off in the long run.

The issue of total honesty is important. Many ministry leaders complicate a crisis by not being transparent about the crisis. Transparency creates trust even where mistakes have been made. Lack of transparency creates mistrust which further erodes the leader's ability to lead. If mistakes have been made and leaders are honest about it, people will forgive. If mistakes have been made and leaders try to hide them, people will lose confidence.

I cannot stress the importance of transparent honesty on the part of leaders enough. Think of the corporations that have tried to deal with their public problems without being transparent - it does not work and causes all kinds of additional problems. Be transparent, take your lumps if necessary but don't tell untruths or color the truth. It does not work and will cause further damage. Falsehoods under any guise cause damage to an organization while truth brought into the light can bring healing. This takes leaders who are courageous enough to speak truth even when it is hard.

One of the results of not coming clean in crisis is that people are left confused. Some know that the story does not add up. Others want to believe their leaders explanation even if it is not totally trustworthy. If on the other hand, leaders are totally transparent, there is little confusion. Truth brings clarity while dishonesty under any guise brings confusion. It is the way of truth and falsehoods.

Honesty and transparency reflect humility on the part of leaders while spin control and dishonesty reflect pride on the part of leaders. People intuitively understand which they are getting and humility breeds respect while pride breeds cynicism.

Second, tell people how you are going to deal with the crisis in clear, unambiguous language. If hard things need to be done, give it to people straight. Stability for them is knowing that someone has a plan and that they are being let in on the plan. Generally there are not more than a handful of key actions that must be taken in a crisis so concentrate on those and leave ancillary things aside.

Third, give people forums where they can talk to leaders so that their issues are clarified and they can share their own perspectives. Leaders need to hear what others have to say and they often know more than leaders think they know (or want them to know). Everyone in a congregation or organization is a stakeholder so after leaders have been forthcoming and laid out a plan, give people a chance to clarify, respond and speak. The only ground rules are that there are no personal attacks or hidden agendas.

Fourth, find some common commitments that the whole group can commit to in order to weather the crisis. If the crisis is financial, there should be financial commitments. If it is spiritual, there should be spiritual commitments. If it is a result of leadership mistakes there should be leadership commitments. The commitments should reflect the reality of the reasons for the crisis and an organization wide response to it. This is possible only if leaders have been upfront initially.

Crisis is the ultimate test of leadership courage. All too often, leaders fail the test because they want to protect themselves. When leaders do what I have outlined above they gain credibility even if they have made mistakes along the way. People respect honesty and despise dishonesty.
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The link to T.J. Addington's blog

http://leadingfromthesandbox.blogspot.com/

See also Sept. 6th/ 8th/ 10th entries for 2009.


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