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| Author: | Interested [ Mon Dec 20, 2010 9:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DEALING WITH GUILT BY THE VICTIM |
people pleasers - most of us! something we need to be free of. we were conditioned to take the blame and do all we can so we are approved by others. criticized or confronted by an NTMer brings fear. sometimes it is OK to not give a rat's behind what someone thinks of me. sometimes it is OK to face the simple fact that something is "their issue" not mine. sometimes it is OK to know "they" whoever they may be, are simply wrong. |
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| Author: | dbarney [ Tue Dec 21, 2010 11:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DEALING WITH GUILT BY THE VICTIM |
I remember when GRACE or NTM (can't remember which)first came out with an update on Fanda and I reposted it on FB from Bonnies or Kari's. OH, MY. I got repromanded immediately by a NTM friend telling me that I shouldn't be putting stuff like that out there for everyone to see. It wasn't good and could do damage to NTM. My response was that my girls went to Fanda and I was supporting my girls in their fight for justice. It was a personal battleground and the support of my girls ranked higher than the mission. I would do it again today for my girls and all Fanda Students. Like others have mentioned in other areas, NTM has been family for a long time and it is hard to see their indifference to all of us that have been hurt in that family by other 'family' members. They (EC) should be looking at us the same way. Would they allow their children to be abused by another one within the family. We are the children of NTM trying to reach the "parents" letting them know that things aren't right. Those "parents" are turning their back to us and not listening. |
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| Author: | steadfast [ Thu Dec 23, 2010 11:30 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: DEALING WITH GUILT BY THE VICTIM |
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