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		<title>Supplement from GRACE 1/10/2011</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Jan 2011 02:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[GRACE Final Supplement]]></description>
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		<title>Supplement to GRACE Amended Final Report</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 17:19:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Download the pdf here Supplement to GRACE Amended Final Report]]></description>
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		<title>Joint Statement of New Tribes Mission and GRACE</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2010/09/joint-statement-of-new-tribes-mission-and-grace/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Sep 2010 17:15:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Joint Statement of New Tribes Mission and GRACE September 8, 2010 Since the release of the original and amended GRACE report, GRACE and NTM continue to receive inquiries and questions from MKs and numerous other parties throughout the world. NTM and GRACE also continue to receive additional information regarding the Fanda boarding school. Accordingly, GRACE [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Joint Statement of New Tribes Mission and GRACE<br />
September 8, 2010</p>
<p>Since the release of the original and amended GRACE report, GRACE and NTM continue to<br />
receive inquiries and questions from MKs and numerous other parties throughout the world.<br />
NTM and GRACE also continue to receive additional information regarding the Fanda boarding<br />
school. Accordingly, GRACE and NTM are issuing this joint statement to assist interested<br />
parties in understanding the report and the process.</p>
<p>First, in the GRACE report Dick Day was listed as being identified on an NTM document as a<br />
sexual abuse perpetrator.  NTM acknowledges that Dick Day’s name was identified on such a<br />
document, but that it appeared as a result of a clerical error by NTM.  The name that should have<br />
been listed instead of Mr. Day is an individual whose name already appears within the GRACE<br />
Amended Final Report.   Instead of listing Dick Day’s name with an explanation cited in a<br />
footnote, GRACE acknowledges its failure in that it should have followed up with NTM about<br />
the fact that Mr. Day’s name appeared on the document without any supporting records.  Dick<br />
Day has not been accused of child sexual abuse.  NTM and GRACE have personally apologized<br />
to Dick Day for these grievous errors. Other than the NTM document, which NTM<br />
acknowledges to be an error, GRACE has received no evidence that Mr. Day ever abused a child<br />
and, therefore, he was never included among the personnel recommendations made by GRACE.</p>
<p>Second, in light of the statements made by Mark Adams to GRACE on the eve of the amended<br />
report, GRACE conducted further inquiries into the conduct of Mr. Adams and has provided a<br />
fuller explanation of the information GRACE has received regarding this matter. This<br />
explanation is contained in the attached Addendum to the GRACE report.</p>
<p>Third, NTM asked GRACE to provide additional detail concerning the conduct of six personnel<br />
before acting on the GRACE recommendations. Although GRACE has sought to protect the<br />
identities and personal information of those victimized at Fanda, we also recognize the need of<br />
NTM for additional information and the standards GRACE used in assessing the documents as<br />
well as written and oral statements we received. This additional information is contained in the<br />
addendum.</p>
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		<title>NTM implementing recommendations</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 21:47:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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		<title>Grace Final Report on NTM Fanda</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Aug 2010 03:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Get the pdf here Amended GRACE Report on NTM Fanda&#8211;Amended Edition]]></description>
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		<title>Grace Final Report on NTM Fanda</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2010 20:42:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[GRACE Final Report on NTM Fanda]]></description>
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		<title>August 2 &#8211; Update</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2010/08/august-2-update/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Aug 2010 04:23:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear MKs: We pray this note finds each of you well.   As August begins, you should be expecting the delivery of the our final report and recommendations relating to the NTM Fanda matter.   The purpose of this note is to provide an update as to our progress and to invite you to meet [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Dear MKs:</div>
<div>We pray this note finds each of you well.   As August begins, you should be expecting the delivery of the our final report and recommendations relating to the NTM Fanda matter.   The purpose of this note is to provide an update as to our progress and to invite you to meet with the GRACE team later this month.</div>
<div>GRACE has spend the last month preparing and writing this critically important report. To be honest, the writing of this report has been more comprehensive undertaking that we initially anticipated.  The biggest challenge in preparing such a report is making sure it is comprehensive while at the same time keeping it at a reasonable length so that it can be fully understood and comprehended.  Thus, we are making extensive use of footnotes to insure that that each reference has a specific basis within the record.  Due to the seriousness of the subject and the plethora of materials (documentation, interview notes, etc), this is has undoubtedly been the most thorough investigation and report that any member of the GRACE team has been involved with in our combined 100 + years of experience.   We say all of this to let you know that we have had to move the delivery date of the final report to no later than August 23rd.</div>
<div>On Saturday, August 28th, the entire GRACE team is meeting with the NTM Executive Board in Sanford, Florida for the purpose of reviewing the report and to answer any questions they may have.  Our ultimate objective for this meeting is to insure that NTM creates an implementation process for the many recommendations we will make.</div>
<div>Each of you has waited for too many years for this matter to be confronted and for NTM to be held responsible for its sin. Thus, the GRACE team thinks it is critically important that we also meet with those MK&#8217;s who would like to meet with us to discuss the report and to answer any questions.     If possible, since the GRACE team will be together, we thought it may be a good idea to try and coordinate such a meeting during the same weekend that we are meeting with the NTM Executive Board.   We are writing to invite you to meet with us during the later afternoon of August 28th in Orlando, Florida.  After consulting with Kari and Bonnie, we thought it would be best for our team to meet with the MKs after our meeting with the NTM Board.   This will provide us the opportunity to report to you about our time with the Board and their response to our recommendations.</div>
<div>Please email Kristie Bevins (at <a href="mailto:netgraceinfo@gmail.com" target="_blank">netgraceinfo@gmail.com</a>) as soon as practical if you are interested and available to meet with us on the 28th.  If you are unable to meet with us, we very much want to schedule a time to talk with you by phone.  What is imperative is that you have the opportunity to review our report and to ask <span style="text-decoration: underline;">any</span> questions and make <span style="text-decoration: underline;">any</span> comments&#8230;we welcome that very much.</div>
<div>I know many have been waiting very patiently for our work to come to a conclusion and our report to be delivered.  We remain incredibly grateful for the assistance, encouragement, and patience you have exhibited to us during these past months&#8230;thank you.  We prayerfully look forward to see God work in powerful ways during these coming weeks and months.</div>
<div>Peace</p>
<div>Boz Tchividjian, Esq.</div>
<div>Executive Director, GRACE</div>
<div><a title="www.netgrace.org " href="http://www.netgrace.org/" target="_blank"><span style="color: #0000ff;">www.netgrace.org</span></a>August</div>
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		<title>Update as of June 2010</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2010/01/update-as-of-janfeb-2010/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 01:07:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[June 11 Dear All: We pray this note finds each of you well during these early weeks of Summer.  First, GRACE apologizes for the delay in updating you as to the progress of our work in this critically important matter.   We have spent the past two months interviewing additional former students who were subject [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>June 11</p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: #000000; font-size: 10pt;"> </span></p>
<div>Dear All:</div>
<div>We pray this note finds each of you well during these early weeks of Summer.  First, GRACE apologizes for the delay in updating you as to the progress of our work in this critically important matter.   We have spent the past two months interviewing additional former students who were subject to various forms of abuse while living at Fanda.  We have also had the privilege and opportunity to speak with a number of family members of those who were abused and learned the indescribable pain inflicted upon entire families as a result of this abuse and NTM&#8217;s failure to respond to it.</div>
<div>We are deeply appreciative for your continued patience during this long and sometimes tedious investigatory review. From day one, GRACE has been committed to conducting a substantive and thorough review in a manner that was also as expedient as possible.  We apologize that this review has taken a little longer than initially anticipated.  The good news is that we are nearing the end of this momentous project and remain hopeful and prayerful that the results will result in substantive and lasting impacts upon the lives of those who have been so hurt and upon New Tribes Mission.   Here is the anticipated schedule for the remainder of our work:</div>
<ol>
<li>On and between June 24th and June 26th, the GRACE team will be meeting with over 15 individuals who were adults during the days of Fanda and who were in some way related to the operation and/or oversight of the school.   Some of these adults have been quite defensive of how NTM operated Fanda, while others have been extremely critical.  As you can guess, these meetings will be critically important and most likely very difficult.  We covet your prayers for these days of meetings.  Please pray that God will give us the wisdom to search and find truth as we learn from, confront, and challenge those who are in attendance. These meetings will provide GRACE with the final pieces of the puzzle needed in order to prepare our final report and recommendations.</li>
<li>The GRACE team will meet on June 26th for the purpose of collecting and finalizing our primary ideas and recommendations for the preparation of the final report.</li>
<li>GRACE will spend the month of July drafting the final report and recommendations.</li>
<li>GRACE will deliver the final report and recommendations to the MK&#8217;s and NTM on a date yet to be determined in August.</li>
<li>Sometime after the delivery date, the GRACE team will be in communication with the MK&#8217;s for the purpose of answering any questions or concerns that any of you may raise regarding the contents of the report and/or the recommendations.</li>
<li>Sometime after the delivery date, the GRACE team will meet in person with the NTM Executive Committee to review the report and to begin working out the implementation of our recommendations.</li>
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<div>As we have mentioned in the past, the objective of our work in this matter is not the mere preparation of a report that can be reviewed and then filed away.  Our primary objective is for NTM to demonstrate authentic repentance to each and every individual who was so damaged by all that transpired at the Fanda School.  Another vital objective is that this work will result in NTM making substantive changes, both organizationally and culturally, to insure that all children are protected and cherished and that those who hurt them are exposed and prosecuted. We are committed to taking as long as possible to make sure these objectives are achieved.</div>
<div>Each of you has been the inspiration to the GRACE team during these past months of difficult work.  Each of you are the reason why we have labored to do our work with excellence.  Each of you are the reason why we have much hope for the future and much hope that true repentance will be demonstrated by NTM.   Thank you for laboring with us on this incredibly important journey&#8230;we are the ones who continue to be so immeasurably blessed by and through every one of you.  Thank you.</div>
<div>Please don&#8217;t hesitate to contact us should you have any questions about any issue raised in this email or any other matter related to this Fanda investigation.</div>
<div>Grace and Peace</div>
<div>Boz Tchividjian, Esq.</div>
<div>Executive Director, GRACE</div>
<div><a title="www.netgrace.org " href="http://www.netgrace.org/" target="_blank"><span style="color: #0000ff;">www.netgrace.org </span></a></div>
<p>April 10 Update &#8211; letter from Grace</p>
<p><span style="font-family: Verdana; color: #000000; font-size: 10pt;"> </span></p>
<div>Dear All:</div>
<div>I pray this note finds each of you well.   I am writing to update each of you on the progress of our investigatory review related to the NTM Fanda abuse.   Since beginning this vital work in October, GRACE has: 1) reviewed hundreds (if not thousands) of documents, 2) collected contact information and has communicated with over 100 former Fanda students, 2) individually interviewed 14 former students of Fanda, and 3) reviewed numerous written statements prepared by former Fanda students.   The information we have gathered through the above process has provided us with substantive insight into the culture and environment of the Fanda School.</div>
<div>It has also grieved us greatly to talk with those who&#8217;s lives have been forever changed as a result of the horrific sexual, emotional, physical, and spiritual abuse received while attending a Christian boarding school.   It continues to be our objective to do everything possible to make sure that the results of this project will facilitate substantive changes at NTM to insure that child abuse and the failure to respond to it will never again be a part of the NTM culture.</div>
<div>We also remain hopeful that this project will result in NTM demonstrating substantive and authentic repentance to all of you.</div>
<div>Initially, our objective was to have our work completed in the late Spring and to have a final report/recommendations delivered to you and NTM by the early Summer.  Unfortunately, we will not be able to accomplish this objective on that time line.   One critical aspect of this project is for the GRACE team to meet with adults who had significant ties with Fanda, including but not limited to, parents, school employees, school and field leadership, and possibly perpetrators.  Due to a variety of reasons, GRACE has had to schedule these meetings in June.  Therefore, we believe that this project can be completed by the end of June and a report finalized shortly thereafter.</div>
<div>In the meantime, to make the best use of our time, we are currently drafting sections of the report that are unrelated to these upcoming meetings.   We are also in the process of completing a number of phone interviews with former Fanda students&#8230;these should be completed by May.</div>
<div>GRACE remains fully committed and passionate about this vital project and the critical importance it has in the lives of so many.   We will not rest until the work this work is complete and has been carried out with thoroughness and excellence.</div>
<div>Please do not hesitate to contact me should you have any questions, concerns, or additional information which will assist us in our work.   Thank you for allowing us to serve.</div>
<div>Grace and Peace.</div>
<div>Boz Tchividjian, Esq.</div>
<div>Executive Director, GRACE</div>
<div><a title="www.netgrace.org " href="http://www.netgrace.org/" target="_blank"><span style="color: #0000ff;">www.netgrace.org </span></a></div>
<p>Feb 23 UPDATE</p>
<p>VA went very well. About 15 former MKs were there to share their stories in individual interviews with the Grace team. Grace asked intelligent questions and displayed appropriate outrage about what happened at Fanda and the resulting NTM coverup. This was the first experience for some of us in realizing that by speaking up we are part of the solution &#8211; not the problem. To speak up is strength and bravery. Thank you to Grace for their hearts and time and expertise.</p>
<p>Grace will speak to many more MKs and Ms (missionaries and former missionaries) in the next month and they are shooting for final recommendations by end of spring/early summer.</p>
<p>Please email Grace if you still want your voice heard. We are so encouraged. Love.</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-</p>
<p>Happy 2010 everyone. This is going to be an amazing year.</p>
<p>People have been asking for an update so I thought I&#8217;d let everyone know that things are happening! Those of us MKs who want to meet with Grace will be traveling to Virginia most likely the weekend of Feb 19. After that the phone interviews will commence and we should be seeing the final letter of findings by late spring/early summer at the latest.</p>
<p>So many letters are pouring in from MKs who have had an experience of abuse at other NTM schools around the world but because it is now out in the open are finding support/seeking counseling and starting to face those things we might have tried to never think about but that affect us nonetheless.</p>
<p>If anyone wants me to attend their interview/phone interview with Grace I am available. Please let me know at eagles@peregrinebynature.com.</p>
<p>Love to all,</p>
<p>Kari</p>
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		<title>Letter and questionnaire from Grace</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2009/12/letter-and-questionaire-from-grace/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 00:10:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear           : I hope this letter finds you well.  My name is Boz Tchividjian and I am the Executive Director of a non-profit organization called Godly Response to Abuse in the Christian Environment (hereinafter, GRACE).  During the past months, GRACE has been working with former students (hereinafter, MKs) who attended the Fanda School in Senegal [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear           :</p>
<p>I hope this letter finds you  well.  My name is Boz Tchividjian and I am the Executive Director  of a non-profit organization called Godly Response to Abuse in the  Christian Environment (hereinafter, GRACE).  During the past  months, GRACE has been working with former students (hereinafter, MKs)  who attended the Fanda School in Senegal and New Tribes Mission (hereinafter,  NTM).  The purpose of our work is to independently and comprehensively  investigate and review numerous allegations of physical, sexual, emotional,  and spiritual abuse that was perpetrated upon MKs while attending Fanda.     Though you may very well find this to be a very difficult and painful  subject, I ask that you make every effort to read this letter in its  entirety.   Please understand, GRACE is not a representative  of NTM but is working independently with all parties involved.</p>
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<p>GRACE is an organization that  was formed in 2004 by a group of prosecutors, counselors, and pastors  who have spent many years advocating for the protection and safety of  children.   It is absolutely necessary for the Christian community  to understand the evils and complexities of child abuse and how it must  be confronted at all cost.   Children have too often been  ignored by the Church, which has contributed to the widespread epidemic  of abuse within the Christian community.    The purpose  of GRACE is to 1) train and equip the Christian community on  how to minimize opportunities for abuse within its own environment,  and 2) train and equip the Christian community on how to properly  respond to child abuse disclosures.   We believe that the  failure to address either of these issues is simply wrong and adds further  devastation to the physical, emotional, and spiritual life of a child,  the effects of which can last a lifetime.   Furthermore, when  the Christian community fails to take immediate and substantive corrective  action upon learning of such abuse, it is in direct contradiction to  the commands of Christ when he said, Let the little children come  to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such  as these (Mark 10: 14).    You can learn more about  GRACE at our website, <a href="http://www.netgrace.org/" target="_blank">www.netgrace.org</a>.</p>
<p>A few months ago, GRACE was  approached by the executive committee at NTM and informed about its  failures to adequately address the numerous allegations of abuse related  to the Fanda School.  We were asked to consider whether we would  review the entire matter and make certain recommendations to NTM to  ensure that it finally and correctly demonstrates authentic repentance  for this dark chapter in the lives of so many individuals.    After much thought and prayer, the GRACE board informed NTM that we  would conduct a comprehensive review and investigation into the entire  Fanda matter.   A non-negotiable condition to our engagement  was that our work be wholly independent from NTM and that our final  report and recommendations be made simultaneously to the MKs and NTM.    NTM agreed to this condition while again expressing its desire and need  to demonstrate repentance.</p>
<p>GRACE has spent the past two  months reviewing hundreds of pages of documentation we requested and  received from NTM related to Fanda.  We have also spent a significant  amount of time reading the many blog entries and substantive comments  that have been posted on <a href="http://www.fandaeagles.com/" target="_blank">www.fandaeagles.com</a>.   This time of review has  allowed GRACE to become significantly familiar and educated about the  various horrors which transpired at Fanda and the repeated failure of  NTM to take immediate responsive action upon learning of this abuse.     Though we have benefited greatly from this extensive document review,  GRACE believes it is imperative that we hear from each of you.    It is time for us to listen to those whose lives were forever changed  while living in Africa as children of missionaries.     It is through your experiences that GRACE intends to effectuate substantive  change at NTM so that no other child of a missionary will ever have  to walk through a similar nightmare.   Just as important,  it is through your experiences that we expect to make very specific  and substantial recommendations on how NTM can demonstrate authentic  repentance to each of you.    We plead for your assistance.</p>
<p>GRACE would like to meet with  each of you to hear of your experiences at Fanda, and how those experiences  have impacted your life.   Our hope is that during the coming  months, we can arrange for you to travel to our headquarters in Lynchburg,  Virginia to meet with a GRACE team.    We are happy for  you to bring someone with you to this meeting if it will make you more  comfortable.    Ideally, we would like to arrange such  visits on or about the same time so that you all will have the opportunity  to fellowship with each other.  We have arranged that all expenses  related to such a visit will be underwritten by NTM.     If you are unable to meet with us in person, we would very much like  for you to take some time and prepare a detailed written statement for  our review.   It is imperative to understand that everything  you communicate to GRACE (whether in person or in writing) will be held  in the strictest confidence and will not be disclosed to anyone outside  of GRACE, including but not limited to, NTM.</p>
<p>We believe the most practical  way to move forward at this point is for each of you to complete the  attached confidential survey.   This will greatly assist GRACE  in understanding some basic information about each of you as it relates  to your experiences at Fanda.   Upon receipt of the completed  survey, GRACE can begin to move forward and contact each of you individually  to coordinate your visit to Lynchburg, or the preparation of your written  statement.   It is our hope that we can hear back from each  of you via the completed survey no later than Friday, December 18, 2009.   This will provide us with the opportunity to begin contacting each of  you after the Christmas holidays.</p>
<p>Although we pray you will be  able to help us in this process, we also realize that your experiences  are deeply personal and that you may not want to discuss or in any way  re-visit your experiences. Please know that we will completely understand  if you choose not to participate in the survey or the in-person interviews.  Your physical and emotional well-being must come first.</p>
<p>In closing, I want to thank  you for taking the time to read this letter.  For many of you,  any mention of Fanda or New Tribes Mission understandably brings up  various difficult and uncomfortable emotions along with scores of very  painful memories.     Many of you may be extremely  reluctant to engage in a process that in many cases is twenty years  overdue.   All of these responses are extremely reasonable  and justified.    GRACE simply asks that you give us  the opportunity to do what has never been done to this day, the complete,  comprehensive, and independent investigation and review of all abuse  matters related to the Fanda School.    The purpose of  our work is to demonstrate love, respect and honor for all those children  who were so neglected and hurt while innocently attending a missionary  school so many years ago.   Each of you is owed nothing less  than complete accountability and repentance from New Tribes Mission  for its failures to let the little children come unto me.</p>
<p>We would greatly appreciate  if you could return the completed questionnaire within the next ten  days.  This will assist us in moving forward with this process  in an expeditious but thorough manner.</p>
<p>There are a number of individuals  who attended the Fanda School that GRACE has not been able to locate.     If you know of any individual who should have received this letter but  did not, please encourage them to contact us at the above listed email  address.   We very much want to establish contact with everyone  who attended Fanda School.</p>
<p>We look forward to hearing  from you.</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>Basyle Tchividjian</p>
<p>Basyle J. Tchividjian, Esq.</p>
<p>Executive Director, GRACE</p>
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<p align="center">CONFIDENTIAL  GRACE QUESTIONNAIRE</p>
<p>1)  Name:    _______________________________________</p>
<p>Contact Information:</p>
<p>Mailing  Address:  ______________________________________________</p>
<p>Email:    ______________________________________________</p>
<p>Phone  Number:  ______________________________________________</p>
<p>2)   Did you attend Fanda School:        ___Yes  ___ No<br />
If Yes, please indicate year/s: ____________________________</p>
<p>3)  Were you a victim  of any of the following while attending Fanda School? (check all that  apply)</p>
<p>____ Physical Abuse     ____ Sexual Abuse    ____ Emotional Abuse     ____ Spiritual Abuse</p>
<p>4)  Were you a witness  to any of the following while attending Fanda School? (check all that  apply)</p>
<p>____ Physical Abuse     ____ Sexual Abuse    ____ Emotional Abuse     ____ Spiritual Abuse</p>
<p>5)  Would you consider  communicating with GRACE further about your experiences at Fanda School?</p>
<p>___Yes  ___ No</p>
<p>6)  If  Yes, which would you prefer:  (select one)</p>
<p>___   Meet in person  with GRACE team</p>
<p>___   Prepare a written  statement for the GRACE team</p>
<p>7)  Does GRACE have  permission to contact you for the purpose of following up with this  questionnaire?</p>
<p>___Yes  ___ No</p>
<p>** Please return completed  questionnaire to GRACE within 10 days  at the following:</p>
<p>Email: <a href="mailto:info@netgrace.org" target="_blank">info@netgrace.org</a></p>
<p>OR</p>
<p>U.S.  Mail: GRACE</p>
<p>18013 Forest Road, Suite C-04</p>
<p>#198</p>
<p>Forest, VA  24551</p></div>
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		<title>Fanda Alumni</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 20 Oct 2009 15:18:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[UPDATE: There is some misinformation floating around about GRACE, namely that they are &#8220;representing NTM&#8221; in these abuse matters. In the words of GRACE themselves, they are not NTM&#8217;s hired gun, they are a completely independent third party organization who promise to be completely unbiased in making their final report and recommendations. Hi all Fanda [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>UPDATE: There is some misinformation floating around about GRACE, namely that they are &#8220;representing NTM&#8221; in these abuse matters. In the words of GRACE themselves, they are not NTM&#8217;s hired gun, they are a completely independent third party organization who promise to be completely unbiased in making their final report and recommendations.</p>
<p>Hi all Fanda ex-MKs,</p>
<p>Those of us who are seeking closure in this matter would love if you were all willing to speak with GRACE and tell them what you were or were not aware of what was going on on the field. The more insight we have on this matter the more thorough their investigation can be. I personally would be so grateful for your participation.</p>
<p>If NTM lawyers or anyone else &#8220;representing NTM&#8221; contacts you I would encourage you to refer them to GRACE. We know from speaking to GRACE that they hold the position that the cover up that happened at Fanda is Biblically wrong. GRACE does not represent NTM in any way but has agreed to mediate for both parties as an objective third party.</p>
<p>GRACE would love the opportunity to talk with everyone who attended Fanda from 1985 until it closed in 1997. Please feel free to contact them directly at info@netgrace.org.</p>
<p>I hope everyone takes this opportunity to give your thoughts and share your perspective. I understand some of you wont have abuse claims&#8230;GRACE wants to hear from you too. Everyone&#8217;s input will be helpful in uncovering how this abuse could have happened.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love to talk to anyone who wants to contact me.</p>
<p>eagles@peregrinebynature.com</p>
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