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		<title>By: Bonnie</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2009/07/final-plea/comment-page-1/#comment-561</link>
		<dc:creator>Bonnie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 17:32:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Rachel - I&#039;m not sure that I can let you know at this point - it is up to the victim to choose to make his name publically known.  
Most NTM missionaries don&#039;t realize that anyone involved with abuse is still with the mission.  Thank you for reading.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rachel &#8211; I&#8217;m not sure that I can let you know at this point &#8211; it is up to the victim to choose to make his name publically known.<br />
Most NTM missionaries don&#8217;t realize that anyone involved with abuse is still with the mission.  Thank you for reading.</p>
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		<title>By: Rachel</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2009/07/final-plea/comment-page-1/#comment-557</link>
		<dc:creator>Rachel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2009 15:57:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bonnie, would you mind letting me know the first name of the NTM member who is still with the mission in Brazil?  Is he someone I would know from our past?  I didn&#039;t realize anyone involved in the abuse was still with the mission!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bonnie, would you mind letting me know the first name of the NTM member who is still with the mission in Brazil?  Is he someone I would know from our past?  I didn&#8217;t realize anyone involved in the abuse was still with the mission!</p>
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		<title>By: Bonnie</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2009/07/final-plea/comment-page-1/#comment-507</link>
		<dc:creator>Bonnie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 17:56:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear NTM Missionary,
I have come to the realization that perhaps you may not understand what we mean when we say that NTM leadership has been unrepentant. Repentance is not only being sorry, anyone in their right mind should be sorry about what happened to us. Repentance is about first being sorry, admitting that you were wrong, and taking action to make things right.
Since starting our blog, NTM has cut off communication with us. I understand that this comes from fear, but I feel strongly that NTM is only hurting themselves more by choosing to stay silent.
We were told by NTM leadership that they would be taking action to make things right, and that they would keep us informed of the actions as they are taken. They have not kept us informed.

In fact, when others try to get the truth from NTM, they are told half-truths or pointed to someone else. I feel that NTM is still concerned only about protecting their own name.

We were told by NTM leadership that we would be involved in choosing a third party review group. That also did not happen. They chose the group they wanted, and have stepped back, waiting for their chosen group to finish reviewing them.

Dear missionary, here is an example of NTM telling half-truths to you. If you were to call up the leadership and ask them about the pedophile who is being harbored to this day within NTM-Brazil, you would be told that NTM dismissed the man years ago. If you were to accept that as truth, you would not pursue the issue with them, and you would come away feeling satisfied that NTM did the right thing, and that these mk&#039;s are making up lies on their blog.

But, if you were to press it further, if you were to be specific about which NTM you are talking about, you would find that indeed, the man is still with NTM - in Brazil. Somehow NTM feels fine about saying that he was dismissed, because NTM-Brazil is a separate &quot;jurisdiction&quot; from NTM-USA.

If, after pressing the issue, you are told that he is no longer with NTM-Brazil, it would be wise to find out exactly when he was dismissed from that &quot;jurisdiction&quot;. Because, three weeks ago, we were told, after pressing the leadership in Sanford, that the man is still with NTM-Brazil.

Please, in seeking truth about these issues, press them to the end.

If NTM is truly repentant, how then is there still a pedophile among them? How is this man allowed to continue serving as a missionary, when he confessed years ago to molesting a little girl in Senegal?

If NTM is truly repentant, why have they cut off communication with us? They tell you that &quot;We value every MK and their families and are committed to seeking the truth.&quot; If that is so, why is NTM still telling half-truths to their own missionaries? 

Unrepentance is a sin.  Your leadership is sinning against not only us, but you, the missionary who is only trying to fulfill God&#039;s calling and spread the gospel to every tribe, tongue and nation.

Please, Missionary. Pray for discernment. Pray for the ability to separate truth from lies. Pray for strength for yourselves, and for the ability to see the hearts of your leaders. Pray for justice. Pray for repentance. Pray for resolution.   Pray for your mission.  Pray that it will not come crashing down because of sin within the core.  We know that there are many, MANY good missionaries within NTM.  We know that so many of you are fully and righteously doing God&#039;s work, and spreading the gospel.  Pray that although your leaders have sinned against many of us, that God will have mercy on you, His people.  And especially, pray for the courage to stand up for what you know is right, even if that means standing against your own leadership. 
Sincerely, and with great hope of real change within the mission and it&#039;s fields, 
Bonnie</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear NTM Missionary,<br />
I have come to the realization that perhaps you may not understand what we mean when we say that NTM leadership has been unrepentant. Repentance is not only being sorry, anyone in their right mind should be sorry about what happened to us. Repentance is about first being sorry, admitting that you were wrong, and taking action to make things right.<br />
Since starting our blog, NTM has cut off communication with us. I understand that this comes from fear, but I feel strongly that NTM is only hurting themselves more by choosing to stay silent.<br />
We were told by NTM leadership that they would be taking action to make things right, and that they would keep us informed of the actions as they are taken. They have not kept us informed.</p>
<p>In fact, when others try to get the truth from NTM, they are told half-truths or pointed to someone else. I feel that NTM is still concerned only about protecting their own name.</p>
<p>We were told by NTM leadership that we would be involved in choosing a third party review group. That also did not happen. They chose the group they wanted, and have stepped back, waiting for their chosen group to finish reviewing them.</p>
<p>Dear missionary, here is an example of NTM telling half-truths to you. If you were to call up the leadership and ask them about the pedophile who is being harbored to this day within NTM-Brazil, you would be told that NTM dismissed the man years ago. If you were to accept that as truth, you would not pursue the issue with them, and you would come away feeling satisfied that NTM did the right thing, and that these mk&#8217;s are making up lies on their blog.</p>
<p>But, if you were to press it further, if you were to be specific about which NTM you are talking about, you would find that indeed, the man is still with NTM &#8211; in Brazil. Somehow NTM feels fine about saying that he was dismissed, because NTM-Brazil is a separate &#8220;jurisdiction&#8221; from NTM-USA.</p>
<p>If, after pressing the issue, you are told that he is no longer with NTM-Brazil, it would be wise to find out exactly when he was dismissed from that &#8220;jurisdiction&#8221;. Because, three weeks ago, we were told, after pressing the leadership in Sanford, that the man is still with NTM-Brazil.</p>
<p>Please, in seeking truth about these issues, press them to the end.</p>
<p>If NTM is truly repentant, how then is there still a pedophile among them? How is this man allowed to continue serving as a missionary, when he confessed years ago to molesting a little girl in Senegal?</p>
<p>If NTM is truly repentant, why have they cut off communication with us? They tell you that &#8220;We value every MK and their families and are committed to seeking the truth.&#8221; If that is so, why is NTM still telling half-truths to their own missionaries? </p>
<p>Unrepentance is a sin.  Your leadership is sinning against not only us, but you, the missionary who is only trying to fulfill God&#8217;s calling and spread the gospel to every tribe, tongue and nation.</p>
<p>Please, Missionary. Pray for discernment. Pray for the ability to separate truth from lies. Pray for strength for yourselves, and for the ability to see the hearts of your leaders. Pray for justice. Pray for repentance. Pray for resolution.   Pray for your mission.  Pray that it will not come crashing down because of sin within the core.  We know that there are many, MANY good missionaries within NTM.  We know that so many of you are fully and righteously doing God&#8217;s work, and spreading the gospel.  Pray that although your leaders have sinned against many of us, that God will have mercy on you, His people.  And especially, pray for the courage to stand up for what you know is right, even if that means standing against your own leadership.<br />
Sincerely, and with great hope of real change within the mission and it&#8217;s fields,<br />
Bonnie</p>
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		<title>By: Naomi Cleaves (Quilliam)</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2009/07/final-plea/comment-page-1/#comment-264</link>
		<dc:creator>Naomi Cleaves (Quilliam)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 00:36:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes Bonnie, Kari, i am behind you 100%!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes Bonnie, Kari, i am behind you 100%!</p>
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		<title>By: Bonnie</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2009/07/final-plea/comment-page-1/#comment-261</link>
		<dc:creator>Bonnie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 12:45:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Shary, thank you.  I really needed to hear that this morning.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Shary, thank you.  I really needed to hear that this morning.</p>
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		<title>By: Shary Hauber</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2009/07/final-plea/comment-page-1/#comment-260</link>
		<dc:creator>Shary Hauber</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 12:28:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Bonnie, Kari and all the rest of you who have gone public thank you. I am forever grateful to the Mamou Steering Committee for going public when I was afraid to open my mouth. You are helping all of those who just whisper about the abuse to a few friends. Thanks again for your courage.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bonnie, Kari and all the rest of you who have gone public thank you. I am forever grateful to the Mamou Steering Committee for going public when I was afraid to open my mouth. You are helping all of those who just whisper about the abuse to a few friends. Thanks again for your courage.</p>
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		<title>By: Naomi Cleaves (Quilliam)</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2009/07/final-plea/comment-page-1/#comment-255</link>
		<dc:creator>Naomi Cleaves (Quilliam)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 02:43:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>NTM Sydney (Australia) contacted my parents a few weeks ago and asked for my contact details but i have not heard from them as of yet.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>NTM Sydney (Australia) contacted my parents a few weeks ago and asked for my contact details but i have not heard from them as of yet.</p>
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		<title>By: Bonnie</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2009/07/final-plea/comment-page-1/#comment-249</link>
		<dc:creator>Bonnie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2009 15:10:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Despite the obvious fact that the above email was sent only because of Kari&#039;s message, we appreicate your words, CPC, and are looking to the day when we can actually see the results of all your tireless work.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Despite the obvious fact that the above email was sent only because of Kari&#8217;s message, we appreicate your words, CPC, and are looking to the day when we can actually see the results of all your tireless work.</p>
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		<title>By: Kari</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2009/07/final-plea/comment-page-1/#comment-244</link>
		<dc:creator>Kari</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jul 2009 21:08:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>HI Tibby,

Just testing. You here?

Kari

Response from Tibby,

Dear Kari and Bonnie,

In reply to your recent “Dear NTM” email, we want to affirm that we as well are grieved and distraught over this whole situation.  There are no words that can describe the nightmare you have endured.  We know time has lapsed since our last formal communication, but that is not because we are not communicating.  We have been working tirelessly making and receiving calls, and writing e-mails.  This is a huge task; however, it is one we are determined to do in the right way and with the right people involved in order to bring a resolution.

In sending the previous post for the blog, we wanted to show our continued commitment to transparency and to moving this issue forward. We recognize the tremendous courage it has taken for you who were wounded to share your stories. Some have chosen to go public with their pain but others have been more hesitant to do so.  We have the utmost respect for all of you and do not want to cause you further pain. We are working for you; we promise you that.

Depending on His Grace,

The Child Protection Committee</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HI Tibby,</p>
<p>Just testing. You here?</p>
<p>Kari</p>
<p>Response from Tibby,</p>
<p>Dear Kari and Bonnie,</p>
<p>In reply to your recent “Dear NTM” email, we want to affirm that we as well are grieved and distraught over this whole situation.  There are no words that can describe the nightmare you have endured.  We know time has lapsed since our last formal communication, but that is not because we are not communicating.  We have been working tirelessly making and receiving calls, and writing e-mails.  This is a huge task; however, it is one we are determined to do in the right way and with the right people involved in order to bring a resolution.</p>
<p>In sending the previous post for the blog, we wanted to show our continued commitment to transparency and to moving this issue forward. We recognize the tremendous courage it has taken for you who were wounded to share your stories. Some have chosen to go public with their pain but others have been more hesitant to do so.  We have the utmost respect for all of you and do not want to cause you further pain. We are working for you; we promise you that.</p>
<p>Depending on His Grace,</p>
<p>The Child Protection Committee</p>
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		<title>By: Joel C.</title>
		<link>http://fandaeagles.com/2009/07/final-plea/comment-page-1/#comment-241</link>
		<dc:creator>Joel C.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 17 Jul 2009 23:10:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It does really make you wonder who the CPC is there to protect.  In my opinion, the CPC should not be favoring NTM at all. In fact the CPC should really be an outside organization with no ties to NTM what so ever.  That way there would be no allegiance issues to begin with.  If the CPC is truly there to protect the MK then I believe that would already be evident.  Why is it so hard to do the right thing?
 
I thought NTM was bigger and better than this, but they are proving otherwise.

Keep fighting for what is right, do it smart and intelligently and you will get the results you desire.  The truth deserves to be told! NTM please do what is right and just.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It does really make you wonder who the CPC is there to protect.  In my opinion, the CPC should not be favoring NTM at all. In fact the CPC should really be an outside organization with no ties to NTM what so ever.  That way there would be no allegiance issues to begin with.  If the CPC is truly there to protect the MK then I believe that would already be evident.  Why is it so hard to do the right thing?</p>
<p>I thought NTM was bigger and better than this, but they are proving otherwise.</p>
<p>Keep fighting for what is right, do it smart and intelligently and you will get the results you desire.  The truth deserves to be told! NTM please do what is right and just.</p>
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